The effect of excessive social networking site usuage by children

PRESS HERE FOR A SCIENTIFIC STUDY ON THE EFFECTS OF SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES AND TECHNOLOGY ON OUR KIDS .......apart from these research findings, there is no doubt that the effects of the internet and in particular social networking sites are being felt by this generation of families. There are the obvious benefits - lets not forget those! What a resource it can be for music, school work, creativity, finding helpful information and yes the connectedness of social networking sites. However there are no doubt significant downsides to this current social revolution for families, even if the effects of this are only creeping up on us now and becoming apparent. Here are a few of my own concerns (social networking sites I will call SNSs here): 1. Addiction - there is no doubt that social networking is becoming an obsession for many children and indeed adults alike. Its becoming increasingly apparent that more and more time is being spent by kids wanting to network each other via a range of devices and forums, the world is opening up to interconnectedness but is there a danger that both individuals and the family unit could suffer from this technological revolution? I think so. Parents and children need time together, to talk, to relax together, for parents to help mould young lives and so on. Parents, be aware of this, and make sure that a 'good thing' does not become the 'only thing' in your home and family. 2. Disproportionate peer influence - could it be that with the four walls of our homes becoming more and more 'transparent' via social networking that there is danger of the key role that parents have in shaping, encouraging and moulding their children being drowned out by the constant contact with peers and access to media that is taking place. In this situation, parents are 'around' but have little 'voice'. Parents would be advised to consider social media 'black-out times' or limiting use, especially if the child is showing addictive tendencies that are affecting their behaviour and other aspects of their life, like school-work, sibling relationships and so on. Mobile phones now mean our kids can be in their bedrooms and accessing sites. If you have concerns that this is detrimental and becoming obsessive then parents take action! Educate your child about the dangers and bring in boundaries that can help them and help your home! 3. Access to all kinds of stuff - links to dodgy sites or a world of information that make children grow up 'ahead of their time' are an increasing issue facing the family. Social networking opens this information up to a wide and often inappropriate audience. The dangers of pornography are well documented. I recently spoke to a family with three males in the household. All have suffered from an addiction to pornographic websites. The female members of the household have also not been immune to the effects of this 'atmosphere' in the home. I wont go into detail, but as the Bible says - 'when you sow to the flesh, you reap from the flesh'....check out the next edition of this blog soon.....any comments? JS

If God is this, then how can this happen?

Never let a deep mystery make you doubt what is obvious

Michael A Eaton

God's end time redeemed community - Part 3

God's end time redeemed community is to be a community that is...: 3. A church full of both Word AND Holy Spirit ministry................ Smith Wigglesworth’s Prophecy 1947 Smith Wigglesworth from Bradford, England was known as the “apostle of faith.” He moved in mighty signs and wonders and even raised people from the dead in Jesus’ mighty name. Shortly before he passed into glory he prophesied: “During the next few decades there will be two distinct moves of the Holy Spirit across the Church [the body of Christ] in Great Britain. The first move will affect every church that is open to receive it, and will be characterised by the restoration of the baptism and gifts of the Holy Spirit. [This was the Charismatic Renewal which began in the late 1960s+]. “The second move of the Holy Spirit will result in people leaving historic churches and planting new churches. In the duration of each of these moves, the people who are involved will say, ‘This is a great revival.’ But the Lord says, ‘No, neither is this the great revival but both are steps towards it.’ “When the new church phase is on the wane, there will be evidence in the churches of something that has not been seen before:

a coming together of those with an emphasis on the Word and those with an emphasis on the Spirit

. "When the Word and the Spirit come together, there will be the biggest move of the Holy Spirit that the nation, and indeed, the world have ever seen. It will mark the beginning of a revival that will eclipse anything that has been witnessed within these shores, even the Wesleyan and Welsh Revivals of former years. The outpouring of God’s Spirit will flow over from the United Kingdom to mainland Europe, and from there, will begin a missionary move to the ends of the earth.” Whether you like the legacy of Wigglesworth or not (some do some don't!) you have to admit this is a remarkable prophesy/word for our times! God is a God of both Word and Holy Spirit ministry in 'His church'. This is a key phrase - HIS CHURCH isn't it? There is a remarkable tendency to want to just pick and choose the bits of church/Kingdom/God that we like, like an a la carte menu. The truth is that God rocked up in history and simply announced 'I AM WHO I AM' and will roll up history in the same way at the end, unapologetically, having already revealed Himself to creation in the birth, life, death, burial, resurrection, ascension and ultimate return of the Son of God Jesus!

God is a God of both Word and Spirit and churches and believers need to make room for BOTH in their lives...

The Word of God is the Sword of the Spirit in the hand of the believer. We are to learn to wield it and not to keep it forever sheathed or on a shelf gathering dust. The Spirit of God has been given to us as the supreme gift of the Father to us in the New Covenant. What a tragedy that we as Christians/churches would ever conceive to ignore Him, sideline or limit Him, or worse still criticise or blaspheme Him! We need to make room for the Holy Spirit in our churches, in our everyday lives, in our homes and in our bedrooms. We need to remember that the Holy Spirit is a divine Person - we can grieve Him or please Him! We need to remember that the Holy Spirit while invisible is no less real or God than Jesus Christ or the Father! We need to learn how to wait on the Spirit and to keep in step with the Spirit and be led by the Spirit. The Word of God in both logos and rhema is powerful and is God generated God-breathed life to us.

We need both Word and Holy Spirit ministry in the church! BOTH ARE HIS!!

That is not just the task of the individual Christian but also the task for God's end time community - the church. When Jesus Christ returns in the great consummation of the ages,

will we be amongst the 'virgins' with our lamps trimmed and ready with the 'oil' of God flowing in our lives

, or are we just burning the wick of our days for that which will not last?

When the Son of man returns for His end time community, will he find faith on the earth? Will He find a community who are full of the oil of Heaven, allowing Him to move in His church freely, have HIS WAY, revealing Himself in Word and Spirit to the world, in the gifts of the Spirit, in signs wonders and miracles, in love that transcends the bounds of human kindness, in laughter, in marriages, in children, in work and in play, will He find us waiting and enjoying the Presence and gift of the precious Holy Spirit that are His gift to us in the Gospel?

May He find us so..... JS

God's end time redeemed community - Part 2

Hi again, In part 1 I looked at the restorative work of God in us as Christians both as individuals and as a community (church). I looked at the fact that no-one can be redeemed/become a child of God/saved/born again (or whatever other Biblical adjective for salvation you may find!) unless we get to know the truth found in the Person of Jesus Christ. We are saved by Grace through faith and even the faith God gives is a heavenly gift to us! The Grace of God is where God doesn't treat us as our sin deserves but rather through the scandal of the Gospel provides a means of redemption (literally where he 'pays our price') for us. He cleanses, He rescues, He delivers, He brings us to Himself... We also commented how the truth needs to be owned and proclaimed as a believer to a dying world (a world in the grip of ignorance or neglect of the truth found in the Person and work of Christ) and finally I addressed our need as believers to allow truth to meet life in our own personalities and character and

to allow the work of the Gospel to penetrate beyond superficial acknowledgement of truth into the deeper layers and recesses of our being, and to bring forth fruit for the King as His Kingdom comes

. Now I want to look at a second way in which I see God working restoratively in His redeemed community at this time, 2. The church is full of priests, with only One High Priest: OK so many of us are led to believe that, if we attend church (which in itself is a confused concept since redeemed believers ARE church, who gather), that there is one guy who is the professsional who kind of does everything. At best there is a small select committee of zealots who are the cake-bakers, carpet choosers, chief cook and bottle washers, speakers, children church workers and so on! Well, guess what? God is blowing this myth clean out of the water! Yes sir. Its like boooom. Nuclear submarine time. The church is not to be a collection of merely pew warmers (although it is always pleasing to see the congregation warming a pew rather than warming their beds!)The church is an army. The church is a body and Paul taught us that each member has vital significance (try walking far without your little toe...errr...children do not attempt this at home!) The church is to be a mobilised community of faith. We are mobile arks of the covenant

, Presence carriers, people called beyond the four walls of church to make an impact - yeah, go on Praise God its Monday! You can. Every day a Sunday would be safer but it would be OH SO BORING! This is how the Bible describes us in 1 Peter 2v9,

But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

We are priests who bring spiritual sacrifices of worship and service to God (never sacrifices to gain salvation or approval), we minister as priests of encouragement to one another in love, and we are to serve in the priestly office doing and bringing life to a dying world - GOOD NEWS!

I attend too many churches where corporate meetings are a closed shop affair

. I am all on for organisation of who is going to preach or lead out in worship but I must say that

I am AGAINST the idea of church being a spectator sport or a kind of concert that we attend

. The New testament paints a picture of a church where all can be involved, provided that God is leading them to contribute something and that it fits in with whats happening there and then....reading meetings is one of the more difficult tasks of Elders but just because some 'nut-job' once made a fool out of us all by spoofing insanities from the front should not and MUST not become our excuse for NON-USE of the priesthood functioning in a Biblical manner, welcoming and releasing the Kingdom! Indeed the Bible makes it clear that there will be times when unbelievers come into meetings, see cool stuff form God happening, and fall on their faces in worship...Yeah, thats a church I want to be part of ! Sure, kissing our brains good-bye is also not on my menu last time I checked! If you know Christ as your Saviour, then know this - you are a royal priest. A functioning priesthood is also not just for church meetings! Husbands are to be Godly and loving priests to their wives, we are priests in our place of work and so on....

We have both the privilege and responsibility of using your talents productively (Matthew 25)and of not wasting your life. I know this sounds a bit strong but its meant to be. I would also say that if you are part of a church that doesn't make any room for you to be a priest or never encourages you to be a priest in the world, then you are being sold short. You have one life opportunity to sow 'who YOU ARE' to the Spirit, and to release the fragrance of the Kingdom in and through your life. Even that cup of water you serve in His Name will not want for an eternal reward! JS

God's end time redeemed community - Part 1

One of the deep convictions I received many years ago was of God's intense desire to reveal Himself IN and THROUGH His redeemed community - the church! I have often felt disappointed at what appears to be a popular acceptance of tradition, neglect and religious mindsets - even at the expense of nullifying God's Word. Well - it appears to me that God is into building church that is a product of His Kingdom coming and not just built upon the the wisdom and strength of man. Such is the eschatological (end time) community of God. Peter captured this in a moment of revelation when asked by Jesus who Peter thought He truly was. His answer - 'You are the Christ, the Son of the Living God' was responded to with 'You are Peter (petros - a small stone) and upon this rock (petra - a boulder) I will build my church.' Jesus Christ is building His church, it will be built upon the foundation of Jesus Christ - as the Son of the Living God - who came to redeem and build a community in full Trinitarian co-operation that loves Him and reflects the manifold wisdom of God (Ephesians 3v10) that is our destiny, and God's inheritance in all the earth. Anything less will never satisfy those hungry for truth, hungry for restoration, desperate to bring Glory and honour to God in all the earth and ready to leave tired and convenient paths behind for the higher road of God's Kingdom highway. Below I summarise some of the areas of restoration that I believe God is busy with in His church, for those who have 'ears to hear', 1. A community of truth and truthfulness - Paul describes the church to his protege Timothy like this, 'If I am delayed, you will know how people ought to conduct themselves in God's household, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth.' 1 Timothy 3v15 We cannot be saved unless we meet Him who is 'the way, the truth and the life' nor can we grow up toward the stature of Christ unless we get to know the Living Word of God (Jesus Christ) and learn to walk with Him in the Holy Spirit. Church is also to be a community that proclaims truth to the world around us. We are to be the 'light of the world' in Christ. However, church is also meant to be a place where truth meets life, where 'truthfulness' lands, where we refuse to defend darkness in our lives and allow the light of God to shine on the shadowy corners of our hearts. This becomes evident one way or other in community. Serious thought! For this to prosper God wants to bring us into a community where Grace covers us and frees us from condemnation and we develop a culture of truthfulness. Honesty can sometimes be a commodity we are short of in church, preferring to 'stroke' one another and then reveal to third parties the things we see in each other...the Bible calls this gossip and it becomes a vicious circle since people are less 'open and truthful' by default in a culture where they do not feel 'safe' and remain guarded. Religious hypocrisy and superficiality result. Love makes a way for truth to follow. When we are 'for' one another, champions of one another, and cheering one another on (as part of the great cloud of witnesses) then we create a platform for truthfulness to prosper and the truth embraced brings freedom! LAYERS - the Gospel worked into our hearts should mean that we are growing to echo the words of Paul, 'it is no longer I who live but Christ who lives in me'. I know this is no easy process, the bludgeoning instrument of the cross is not always something we grope for in the dark, but it IS God's pathway to LIFE. Our lives are 'layered' and need the truth of God and the freedom He brings to be worked with ever increasing DEPTH into our hearts and minds. So, lets not stop at the top layer, this is only scratching the surface...lets let God down deep, even where it hurts, where we fear we won't cope....thats exactly where we need HIM to be - beyond where 'WE' can cope, and where 'HE' can reign, heal and transform. Religion won't let this happen. So say yes today to the God of all truth and life and let Him in and let Him - down deeper.... Part 2 to follow...blogs work best in bite sizes in our manic world........ JS